I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up...
https://www.echobookmarks.win/you-know-the-look-when-someone-says-you-look-fine-and-your-body-feels-like
I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up on a scan, and I see it in my own home, too. Being told "you look fine" when you’re barely holding it together is a specific, isolating kind of hurt